Tuesday, June 25, 2019

Sunset to Sunset

The first official weekend of summer was a testament to the season. The exuberance of youth was matched by the power of parenting. The shine of the sun was followed by the glow of the moon. My youngest daughter peed her swim diaper. When I took it off, there was no shine, no glow.

Here is a weekend recap, and AWAY, WE, GO!

Friday night was the Stackhouse Park Summer Solstice party. We parked in Westmont and journeyed down to the main pavilion for an assortment of adventure. Our children wore swimsuits as creek crossing and exploring was a guarantee. Our 2-year-old was all but diving into the Stackhouse waterway before we had to warn her of the dangers of hypothermia. She was treated by teenage facepaint artists.

There was an informative and creative Leave No Trace lecture designed for kiddos; a book reading by a local author; live music, featuring my 4-year-old's teacher strumming a guitar. The park also has newly installed tree identification posts that my daughters find captivating. Climbing the path back to our Subaru, they charged hills to pretend to identify trees. At one point, our 2-year-old fell down one of the hills she charged. She was reminded of her body paint artwork and quickly recovered.

When we got home, a miracle occurred. Under the light of the moon on our balcony, both kids fell asleep. My wife and I talked for a good hour and enjoyed this crisp Friday night in June. Historically, once 9PM hits, we, the parents, start to get sleepy, especially me. This is about the time when one or both of our daughters tries to prevent sleep through a series of loony behavior. On the first night of summer, we, the parents, won. Twas only a battle, but we reveled in this wartime victory. Bring on Saturday.

The Westmont Presbyterian Church hosted a 5K, aka the Deacon Dash, on Saturday morning. I ran while my children cheered. I was awarded a hot pink Deacon Dash T-shirt that I will proudly wear. At one point, I dashed too far and had to turn around. At the end, I did not dash far enough. This was one of those 5K where no one cares about finish times. It was all for a good cause and a hot pink T-shirt. As the T-shirt reads, "and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us" (Hebrews 12:1). All proceeds benefited the Westmont Family Counseling Ministries. My family benefited from the Farmer's Market going on in the parking lot. We got a farmer's favorite - zucchini bread - for the ride home. Zucchini bread provided a jolt to mow the lawn.

Grass cut and next up - Thunder in the Valley parade. Now, this was a new conquest. My wife and I got on our motorcycles, blasted Def Leppard, strapped our children in the sidecar, and made our way to Main Street. 

The reality - we boarded our Outback. The parents in black T-shirts. The girls in tie-dye numbers. We might have looked more Woodstock, less Thunder, but ultimately, we were parade bound. From my wife's office, we could get a bird's eye view of the parade with a censored ear of the bikes. To our joy, there was a variety of characters on wheels - Batman, Spiderman, Snow White, Grover, and even Merida. Merida is the courageous archer from the Disney movie Brave. Every hard core Thunder in the Valley biker would know that. 

We went swimming after this expedition. My youngest daughter crushed three Freeze Pops after getting her water exercise and then passed out. Sleeping in the sun, it was clear to see that her last Freeze Pop was green. I scooped her - to protect her from the sun's might - and we found refuge in TV golf. It was glorious. 

Then, I had to change that aqua diaper. It reminded me of a couple weeks ago when there was a tornado warning and water rushed into our front yard. It was astonishing. Even Merida would have been shook. We had to recover quickly. The countdown was on for Toy Story 4 in the Great Outdoors.  

As the sun set over Johnstown, a herd of vehicles stormed the Silver Drive-Ins. Arriving an hour early, we were 20 cars deep in a line to see Woody and Buzz once more. I was first introduced to this cowboy and space ranger when I was 11. 24 years later, "To Infinity and Beyond" is as powerfully as ever. The Toy Story franchise is what magic in the movies is all about. To see hundreds of cars on that grassy knoll is something I will never forget. My daughters playing with my 6-month-old niece on a blanket. My 6-month-old niece sitting up and scaring herself when she rolled from a seated position to a blanket face plant. The magic of the drive-ins. 

That 6-month-old was asleep in no time. Our kids watched the entire movie on pure adrenaline and fruit snacks. I was proud of my squad. We had to be one of the few and proud families who pulled off the Thunder parade to Toy Story 4 sequence. 

On Sunday, we decided that Dad and the women of the house needed time away from each other. Not because we were sick of each other; because it was the right thing to do. When I went upstairs to pick up my first born on Sunday morning, she looked at my attire and the first words she spoke to me were these: "Let me guess, you're golfing?"

"18 holes, precious. 18 holes."

When we reunited on the balcony on Sunday night, another brilliant summer day was coming to a close. From Stackhouse adventuring to 5K running to Thunder parading to family swimming to movie going to leaving my family behind to golf - it was a seasonal sensation. 

Blessed with good health, the sun brought out the best in us. I hope that sun continues to shine over Johnstown. I hope we have to continue using the highest powered sunscreen on the market.

Get out in the sun. Get out in your community. 

As Woody says, "Reach for the Sky!"












Sunday, June 16, 2019

Father's Day Top 10

The 2019 Spring is almost over. Father's Day is a good day to look back and produce a seasonal Top 10. My daughters, my products, were instructed to rub my shoulders while I type. I am still waiting for that shoulder rub, but without further ado:

10. Graduation

My oldest daughter graduated from 3-year-old academia. Her first year of education at Geneva Preschool was by all indications a smashing success - great teachers, great experiences, funny stories, funny kids. What is not funny? College tuition estimates 15 years from now. Girls, less sundaes, more scholarships.

9.  Open for Business

Idlewild is up and running for the 2019 calendar year. Our family did a weekday night to ease into the amusement park scene. My oldest daughter and I rode the Scrambler, bringing us closer together, literally.  My wife almost threw up on the Merry-Go-Round. Mommy-Don't-Go-Around-So-Good. Our 2-year-old did not follow the rules and regulations on the Doodlebug. The Doodlebug conductor had to stop the Doodlebug.

So, our first trip to Idelwild was just as we planned.

8.  Anniversary

My wife and I celebrated our 6th Anniversary on June 1st. I promised her I would take her to Idlewild to ride the Merry-Go-Round later in the month. "Love is a circle, setting people free, love is a circle, love is you and me" (random poem line I found on Google) (Dad move).

7.  Dedication

We decided to donate the crib that both our daughters used to a church garage sale. We did not consult with our 2-year-old prior to making this decision. While trying to squeeze that wooden mass out of our house, our youngest screamed bloody murder. She collapsed on the floor as we worked our way around her betrayed body. Once we got the crib outside, she demanded to get inside. On our front porch, she jumped in her crib one last time, like a rabid kangaroo. It was cute. It was scary.

The crib was sold for an unknown amount.

6. Annihilation

On the night of a tornado warning, that same 2-year-old slept on the living room floor as hail pelted our home. Her sister danced on the front porch, illuminated by ice falling from the sky. All our mulch flooded into the front yard. There is nothing like being a Dad and watching your mulch mix in with your grass. Abstract art. We have a wooden woodpecker whose wings are powered by wind. Now, we have a one-winged woodpecker.

Dad: "Who clipped my woodpecker's wing?"

Mother Nature: "I did. Go check the basement."


5. Pilgrimage

On the Saturday before Father's Day, our family hiked through Stackhouse Park to Mill House Cafe. And by hiked I mean, I pushed the oldest in a stroller with the youngest in a hiking pack on my aging back. My wife carried a musket and protected us as we made the ascent into Westmont. We traversed fallen trees and befriended bugs. Upon reaching our destination, the parents sipped caffeinated drinks like Lewis and Clark. The girls acted like Thelma and Louise until a banana nut muffin was used as a peace offering.

4. Tour

The 2019 edition of Taste and Tour in downtown Johnstown was a blast. My wife is a mastermind behind the operation. This annual event has become a showcase of all the good things downtown has to offer. Family, friends and neighbors bombard businesses - 44 businesses participated this year - in one big community party. Cheers to everyone who took to the streets that Saturday; to all the small business owners; to everyone working to bring the best out of downtown Johnstown.

3. Flood

For the second consecutive year, I participated in the Path of The Flood 12K. This race, held on the morning of Taste and Tour, is an exceptional 7.4 miles from trail to city streets. I beat my Dad time from last year and got to give my daughters a sweaty hug at the finish line. The finish line was at People Natural Gas Pavilion, the site of my wedding reception.

"Love is a circle, setting people free, love is a circle, love is you and me" (Dad move - repeat yourself until you are acknowledged)

2. Lunar Eclipse

My father had the golf round of his retirement to defeat me in a Dad-on-Dad battle in honor of Father's Day. He played lights out. At one point in my life, I was an angry golfer and getting trounced by my father would have led to rage. When I was in my 20s I thought I could become better at the sport through aggression and profanity. Now, at 35, I just like being outside.

"Double bogey, beautiful day".

1. Celebration

My wife's grandmother passed away in June and we celebrated her life. Her final day on Earth was on Polkafest Sunday, a fitting farewell. Her Cambria City home was a festival headquarters for decades. Her back porch was a festival sanctuary. Hundreds, maybe thousands of people, walked through her backyard - generation after generation, polka after polka.

I have a vivid memory of her sitting on that back porch and just watching my daughters run wild in her backyard. As they scream, she smiles. No words are exchanged, just one generation looking fondly upon another.

Life sure does fly by. I look forward to the Father's Days ahead.

The full-ride college scholarships. The golf round of my life. The shoulder rub.

The should rub.

The shoulder rub.